How many times have you heard your family, friends and associates tell you that a particular person in your life is playing you?
You choose to give them the benefit of a doubt and walk with them because you want to know for yourself if they really are that bad.
When you know, you know.
This is life, everyday.
We must make decisions for ourselves and not for people.
The focus is not on how bad or good the decisions are.
The focus is on you owning your life with all the decisions you make.
IT IS YOUR LIFE.
A person that never points fingers and owns up to their own decisions, is a person who is living through the process of life.
You see, as long as there's progress and positive results after each wrong turn on your inside, you will not know the process of living life.
If as a mother I stop my son who is 10 months old from crawling on the floor because of my fear of him being in pain, my son will be delayed or start to get frustrated.
Many people see external patterns of your circumstances but never see the resilience it is building on the inside of you.
You are your life, any man that comes to you pretending to be single and have children, but refuses to show you his children, it's because he is still in that relationship with the children's mother, and he feels the need to protect them from you because you are not important to him.
He is lying to you: stay away from such individuals. A relationship that is not transparent from the beginning is only a playground for the one holding back information.
Life is what you make of it, there are millions of other people that you are yet to meet.
"Never entertain or work with people who lie". This is what I tell my clients as I am an agent of truth.
Walk in the light of truth all the times, and even if you're wrong, admit that you are wrong and sincerely apologise.
Trying to lie and turn it to the other person, not knowing whether they hold evidence on your lie, is making matters worse for yourself.
PEOPLE ONLY PLAY US BECAUSE WE SAY THEY PLAY US.
WHAT IF THEM PLAYING US IS ACTUALLY THEM PLAYING THEMSELVES?
Enjoy your Tuesday Truth.