***Can you handle the truth***
“…But the one who divorces a good woman loses what is good from his house. To choose an adulteress is both stupid and ungodly.”
Proverbs 18:22 TPT
Sometimes when we ask God to bless us, we end up destroying the blessing ourselves by wanting more or simply because we do not see what is in front of us as a blessing.
When praying, it is best to pray with understanding. Many have lost the blessing God gave them because it did not come in the package that their family members wanted for them or how they thought of it based on social media standards or television standards (fake life style).
God does not make sounds when he enters a place, He shakes the place up with people questioning. (Something churches will not teach you)! God entry brings confusion, especial where darkness (lies) reigned for years.
God is a God of just my friends and He can enter your life through a single mother who had kids from different men and your family gave you a girl who never had children because that is what they felt you needed.
Now, nothing is working for you.
The same family members that adviced you wrong, cannot help you.
You’re up and down blaming people including the woman your insulted publicly and called an evil witch 🧙♀️. Hmmmm
Now she is not a witch to you.
Now her absence in your life proves that you lost your blessing.
The realisation got you now to use the child as a way to try work your way back in her life as a friends because you remembered, she use to pray for you and God used to speak to her about you.
Word of advice on how to end a relationship, when you used and abused the person trust is:
1. Do not get caught up in the hype of the other woman telling you to block your child mother as a proof that you want her alone. (It’s you booking your child too. When she moves from it and blocks you, you can not blame her for her actions, you educated her on how to treat you also).
2. As I always say: there are ex man and ex woman. But there will never be ex children.
Many of you, by your own doing, you burn the bridge down because you were 100% sure that, she will die into herself or She will be miserable without your emotional, spiritual and physical assistance.
Newsflash: She made it and will also make it and do you know why?
She was standing with God when she meet you and was standing with God when you burned the bridge. There is never any failure in God. The sooner people realise this, the better they will chose to live their life.
I measure people authenticity of having the Holy Spirit in them through the integrity of their words.
Some people love to talk about what they want to do, and never do it. If the Holy Spirit is in you, Your words are seasoned and everything uttered was cooked before it was spoken band it will not come back void. It will come to pass, soon or later.
Some people do not look the part of how a godly person should look according to religion standards, but when you look into their deep, you will see light 💡. If you do not call that light to come out, it’s not their fault, it’s your fault.
Woman, you are filled with God and the wisdom of God in you. Your power is in the words that comes out of your mouth. (What are you saying)?
Do not let Satan trick you like he did Eve.
Which reminds me of a book I am working on for my twin sister Shekinah Portia Blessings. Titled “Don’t make the same mistakes Eve made.”
It’s the most powerful book filled with gems for women in Christ for such a time as this.
Her revelations on how the devil trick was to Eve was mind blowing. She shows you how the devil is still using many of us women in the same way. Ladies, it’s a book not to miss once out.
A person filled with God, will never look 👀 dressed up with suit, no tattoos, no piercings etc.
These individuals were once broken individuals before God pick them. God never come to us appearing like light, the devil does that.
God is found zinc the dark places, God moves in dark places, to call out light to come out, just to confuse darkness.
Go we’re there is not much light of God and start to shine God light. Those that are drawn to your light will change and before you know it, the whole world, where you are, is filled with light.
“Be imitators of God in everything you do, for then you will represent your Father as his beloved sons and daughters.… Once your life was full of sin’s darkness, but now you have the very light of our Lord shining through you because of your union with him. Your mission is to live as children flooded with his revelation-light! And the supernatural fruits of his light will be seen in you—goodness, righteousness, and truth. Then you will learn to choose what is beautiful to our Lord. And don’t even associate with the servants of darkness because they have no fruit in them; instead, reveal truth to them. The very things they do in secret are too vile and filthy to even mention. Whatever the revelation-light exposes, it will also correct, and everything that reveals truth is light to the soul. This is why the Scripture says, “Arise, you sleeper! Rise up from your coffin and the Anointed One will shine his light into you!” Ephesians 5:1, 8-14 TPT
•Living in God wisdom:
“So be very careful how you live, not being like those with no understanding, but live honorably with true wisdom, for we are living in evil times. Take full advantage of every day as you spend your life for his purposes. And don’t live foolishly for then you will have discernment to fully understand God’s will. And don’t get drunk with wine, which is rebellion; instead be filled continually with the Holy Spirit. And your hearts will overflow with a joyful song to the Lord. Keep speaking to each other with words of Scripture, singing the Psalms with praises and spontaneous songs given by the Spirit! Always give thanks to Father God for every person he brings into your life in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”
Ephesians 5:15-20 TPT
“And out of your reverence for Christ be supportive of each other in love. For wives, this means being devoted to your husbands like you are tenderly devoted to our Lord, for the husband provides leadership for the wife, just as Christ provides leadership for his church, as the Savior and Reviver of the body. In the same way the church is devoted to Christ, let the wives be devoted to their husbands in everything. And to the husbands, you are to demonstrate love for your wives with the same tender devotion that Christ demonstrated to us, his bride. For he died for us, sacrificing himself to make us holy and pure, cleansing us through the showering of the pure water of the Word of God. All that he does in us is designed to make us a mature church for his pleasure, until we become a source of praise to him—glorious and radiant, beautiful and holy, without fault or flaw. Husbands have the obligation of loving and caring for their wives the same way they love and care for their own bodies, for to love your wife is to love your own self. No one abuses his own body, but pampers it—serving and satisfying its needs. That’s exactly what Christ does for his church! He serves and satisfies us as members of his body. For this reason a man is to leave his father and his mother and lovingly hold to his wife, since the two have become joined as one flesh. Marriage is the beautiful design of the Almighty, a great mystery of Christ and his church. So every married man should be gracious to his wife just as he is gracious to himself. And every wife should be tenderly devoted to her husband.” Ephesians 5:21-33